How to Shine through Challanges

Learning how to be for the Self- not against.

When within you you feel broken, when you feel like there is a hole that needs to be filled, but you don’t have a capability to control it or to fill it… the times when you feel heavy or when you feel pain internally, like there is something that is missing, even tho the world around seems to be just as regular- at those times we are asked to feel- instead of closing the heart from our own selves and from the world around us; we are asked to express and to show our inner worlds and feeling- instead of putting a mask on and pretending or playing untouched or careless; we are asked to meet ourselves where we are at this moment, at this level of consciousness, at this form and shape, at this state of being and feeling, to meet ourselves with love, care, and acceptance. And when you do, you know, you don’t feel alone any more, you feel like you have yourself now, your support, your love, and your care. It is like you become for your own self, instead of being against- trying to push yourself when you are down or low or simply need the rest, trying to judge where you are currently at instead of accepting yourself the way you are inside and out at this moment.

Through supporting yourself and loving yourself, being for yourself, you start seeing and feeling how everything around you starts supporting you. You start seeing how the Universe feels shinier, the people look kinder. You start seeing how you having yourself and loving yourself unlocks so much of the external love for you to keep nourishing yourself with. And there, right there, it gets easy… like you release another layer of a heavy weight on your shoulders, like you drop another burden. It gets easy because now, you aren’t judging yourself any more, you aren’t creating any more tension on the top of the tension that you are already experiencing, no extra pressure, no extra challenge… you just allow yourself to experience whatever is within you at the moment, meeting yourself where you are at with an open heart and viewing this very unique experience and yourself going though it with the loving caring eyes filled with acceptance and support.

The life gets so easy and content when we just learn how to be kind to ourselves and our inner children. We aren’t guilty for not receiving enough love and kindness when we were so little innocent kids thatw ere just trying to purely and innocently look at this world and see the love everywhere. Every life conditions happens for a reason of coarse, and we experience what we are meant to, for the sake of our spiritual evolution, every life condition that we did not control, every childhood trauma that we have created by interacting with this world and with the people around, every time we got hurn emotionally, mentally, or physically… all are for the Higher Purpose and for the Higher evolution. But, on the path to healing, on the self-love journey, it is more pleasant to walk the path caring about your beautiful self, nourishing your inner child with all that love and care that it didn’t receive and closed from the world. Every little experience and situation on our path presents us with a chance to love our own selves a little more at a time. A human path is a path to the Uniconditional Love where you become that love within you by nourishing anf nurturing your beautiful self with all that love first and then bringing that same love and radiating that same love to the worlf around you allowng the love to heal all. Love is the only Truth and the only Destiny of a Human experience.

Most of the times on your path, you only have your own self. Not always you are understood and supported even by the loved ones and by the family. That can be painful but that is for a reason too, of coarse, so that you can learn how to accept/ support/ and carry yourself through the rejection; so that you find a home within your own self, within your own heart- a safe, loving, caring home, where you can always return to and nourish, where you nervous system can finally relax and rest for a moment, where you can be at peace, where no judgement and self-sabotage ever exists. This home is the base, it is your self-love, your self-care, your ability to be for the self, for your inner child, not against it.

In life most of the times, it is again just us. Us against us, or us for us. The path is content and pleasant when we choose to walk as ‘us for us’.

When you are FOR yourself, during happy moments and painful moments as well, you shine within, you flow with whatever is within you and with whatever the life brings your way.

Again it is not the easiest thing to do unconditionally because the conditions happen, the life situations and experiences come and disturb us, our minds react, the emotions of shame and guilt/ self-sabotage and self-judgement appear within you… and here your heart closes from your own judgement, and you don’t feel the pure flow of love any more… it takes awareness, during those moments, to sense it right away and to come back to the heart, to drop from the fear and from the mind, to the love and to the heart.

Take one step at a time, come back to your heart, try to be gentle with yourself, to nourish yourself with love and care… and with time it will be easier and more content.

At times, we all experience challenges, we all get noisy and chaotic because the world around us is that way, and our minds always react to the surrounding they are experiencing- this is the human essence, nature, and part of our experience. It is okay, everything is, as all is just a part of an experience, a part of a beautiful meaningful experience that our souls chose to walk on Earth for the purpose of their own evolution.

Take care of yourself, do something that nourishes or do absolutely EVERY SINLE THHING that nourishes you no matter how much time it will take, because at the end this IS YOUR EVOLUTION as a spiritual being on earth, to learn how to love yourself fully and unconditionally, to learn how to take care of yourself and nourish yourself and your cup, so that then you can ENJOY this world and every aspect of it so so deeply, so that then you can radiate that joy and love- that you feel from how nourished you are- to the world around, to other people, to other forms of life, helping them to heal, purify, and illuminate too.

This is why you heal so that your traumas and childhood wounds do not disturb you from loving you and enjoying you and taking care of you first, and then of the world around you.

Be for you, take care of you, and love YOU so deeply, ahhh, so that you don’t need anything external, no validation, no approval, so that you float with that love and flow with ease through the life, through all the challenging and painful experiences, and through the experiences of harmony and ease.

All starts within you.

Sometimes the only sunshine that truly shines is the one within you. Sometimes everything around is gray and gloomy, that is when the love within your heart makes it more enjoyable, that is when the love within your heart saves you and shines though you.

Sometimes you are the only one that can shine, so be the glow, nourish your sun (your heart) so that it shines and brings the uniquely beautiful smile on your sweet face.

When you glow within, everything around you seem to enhance your glow. When you are nourished within you- every little thing and experience, every interaction with the world, with the people, with the nature, even the material things, start nourishing you even more, start bringing you the joy, and filling your heart with even more of the warming love.

It all starts within you.

Take care of Yourself :)